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End of a chapter


My last flight as a captain at Chautauqua Airlines came last night, June 18th, 2008. It was a bittersweet day for me, as I am very sentimental. With first officer Zach Izzie and flight attendant P.J. DeSantis, we flew from Columbus, Ohio (CMH) to New York (JFK) and back again.

I truly love my job, have enjoyed all 7 years and 8 months I’ve spent flying for Chautauqua, and will miss the flying, the people, and the short drive to work. Leaving a quality airline, with good seniority (I’m in the top 10% of the pilot seniority list) and the privileges that come from working for a U.S. airline make my move to Cathay Pacific somewhat of a risk. But, with any job change, especially with the airlines, there is always risk, it’s just a matter of how calculated is the risk and are the benefits of the risk worth it.

In my case, I feel the risks of leaving are worth it. Many of my friends who have left Chautauqua for major U.S. airlines are probably going to get into trouble, especially with high oil prices and potential mergers and liquidations. Taking that risk is too high for me to leave what good status I have at Chautauqua. I could only leave my current job for something that would be considered the best or a cream-of-the-crop airline. I feel Cathay is a member of that short list.

I hand in my Chautauqua I.D. badge today. Without that I.D., I can’t travel for free anymore, and I feel somewhat alone and nervous without it. Today, June 19th, I have no job and we have no insurance! Transitions are always uneasy, but I wait for my chance to join another group of pilots and start a new chapter in my book of flying days. So, the adventure begins.

We’ll see what happens . . . stay tuned.

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More Landscaping


Will this landscaping project ever end? I told Laura that I think it’s great that we have the “Hong Kong” deadline, so we are forced to get this stuff finished. Today, we mulched, and mulched some more.

Yesterday, I spent the whole day putting together a new gutter down-spout and laying a bunch of landscape stone around the back side of the house. It’s tough to get those dudes level and straight, but the hard work with paver sand and a rubber mallet paid off.

Today, we scrambled to get a load of dirt put behind the landscape stones but were running out of dirt. Kurtz Brothers landscaping closed at 3 p.m. and it was 2:15! We hurried up and shoveled all the dirt out of the truck and then raced over to get more dirt. I raced home, we put it down, and then raced back to get the mulch we needed, just prior to 3! We could finally work at a less frenzied, slower pace. We put mulch over all the dirt we spread in between the house and the stones, and then around several trees.

As I type this, I realize that it doesn’t sound like a lot of work, but it took us about 7 hours, to get finished spreading dirt and mulch — and our backs are sore!

At Kurtz Brothers, I had to wait a little while for the front-end loader to come over to the truck and load up the mulch. For my wait, the guy gave me extra mulch. How much? TWICE as much! I got $120 bucks worth of mulch for $60 — you can’t beat it. That was a nice pick-me-up for the day, but boy are we glad we are finished. At least with this project . . .

Click on the picture of Laura for more photos of the project where we added more photos to the Landscape Project Album.

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Main landscape project


For the most part, the Major Landscape project is finished! We still have some more work to do, but the part of the house and landscape that shows itself to the world, street-side, is now complete.

We wanted to stop, or at least slow down, some of the water entering the basement from around some windows in the basement. We had to backfill dirt up to the house to help keep water away from the foundation. By the way, this is a good idea for anyone to do, if you haven’t done so already. Dirt is cheap, about $30 bucks a cubic yard (a full-sized pickup truck full).

The hardest part about any dirt-moving landscape job is obviously the sweat-equity involved. This whole project cost less than $200 dollars, but took several weekends of back-breaking work. It always bugged me at how quickly a front-end loader could fill the back of the pickup bed with dirt, but how long it took me to unload the dirt once we had it home!

What do you think? Does the dirt and mulch look better than the gutter pipes and weeds? I haven’t decided yet. We still need to bring the landscape blocks, dirt and mulch, around the southwest side of the house, by the back porch and kitchen, and then we’ll have the house completely surrounded in mulch and dirt, to give the house a cleaner look. We had a bunch of 30 year old evergreen bushes around the perimeter of the house, but they have gotten too big and make the house look dated: yes, the 70’s have come and GONE!

Click the picture at the top of the blog entry to see more photos from the project and click here to see the blog entry about what it took to get to the dirt and mulch end of this project.

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Blocks and Mortar


We have been getting some water in our basement during heavy downpours and we think that it is party due to the fact that two of our basement windows sit at exactly ground level, like the picture above. With a wooden frame, these windows probably allow some water to flow around them, and into the house. Part of our “Major Landscape” project is to backfill dirt up against the house in an attempt to keep rain water flowing away from the foundation, instead of toward it.

This Major Landscape project has been ongoing for over a year and continues with the efficiency of an Interstate-highway project: Slowly. We can’t backfill dirt up against windows, so before we could do that, we had to put basement window “wells” around two windows, and then planned to close off two others. The wells are in place and now, finally, the last two windows are filled in with cement block. The final stage will be to back fill dirt up to the house and then plant some greenery and mulch around it all.

There are five remaining basement windows that are only single-pane glass and sit in rotting wooden frames. The plan is to also remove these and replace them with glass block. Not only is glass block more sturdy, but much safer against break-ins. We didn’t want to put glass block in the two windows we filled in with concrete block because they would be behind dirt.

I started Saturday with the full intention of simply kicking back and taking the day as easily as possible. However, Laura encouraged me to get the project going before I headed off to Hong Kong. “Good idea!” I thought.

It started off easy, like it always does, with tearing out one of the windows. The frame was tough, but I got it out. Then the going got rougher when I tried to take out the second frame. I huffed, and I puffed, but the frame would not blow down! I finally got a circular saw and cut that dude in several pieces, being careful not to catch the blade on the concrete the frame was sitting in. Finally the second frame came out and off to Home Depot we went, to get the cinder-blocks and mortar.

We got the wrong kind of block on our first trip, and had to return . . . Then, with the proper tools in hand, we began our project of laying concrete block and mortar. Tackling this was interesting because neither I nor Sweet Pea had done this before. How hard could it be, anyway? I already knew that proper stacking of the block should be staggered, where one block sits not directly above the one below it, but off set by half the width of the block. However, I had decided that doing that would mean cutting the block in half, and with one chisel, wasn’t interested in aesthetics.

The mortar was hard to mix in the wheelbarrow, but we managed. We started using a spade tool to spread the mortar, but we soon realized that we were not skilled enough to get that to do what we wanted, so we resorted to using our hands to spread the mortar in just the right places. Unfortunately, the mortar wouldn’t stick to the sides of the blocks like is should. I guess we mixed it wrong, but when we wanted it to stick to the vertical side of the block, it only fell off when we went to place the block in position. This was very frustrating because with the block in place but with no mortar in the vertical “seem” we had to squeeze and maneuver the mortar into place with our fingers — both painful and time consuming (not to mention not proffering a very professional look).

About half way through the project, I saw a label on the mortar bag that said, “Warning! Irritant — Keep out of eyes and avoid skin contact.” Arrr! Could this get any worse? (It does) I decided not to tell Laura, because the damage was most likely already done and I didn’t want to scare her away — I still needed her help! The final steps were to add one block in sideways, so that the two holes in the block would go through the wall. I needed two holes, one for a dryer vent, and one for a future bathroom vent, and I didn’t want to have to chisel those out later. That block when in behind the water heater, and it was hard to get to it. Wrenching my back, I got it in. Twenty years from now, when I need back surgery for $30,000 will the filled in windows be worth it? Sure.

I then installed the two dryer vent tubes and louvers, and attached the dryer to the vent tube. It is nice to vent the dryer outside now. The hole for the future bathroom vent has a towel in it, to give us some insulation until the bathroom in the basement project is complete.

Finally, we painted the block with water-blocking paint, and put tar, or bull tar, or pitch, or “black mammy” or whatever you want to call it, along the bottom of the windows and along the basement wall and patio outside, to prevent water from finding its way inside.

All in all, it was a fun, but sweaty and stressful project. It’s one of those that needed to be done, but also feels great to have behind us.

Now, remember how I said that it couldn’t get any worse, but does? That night, we both woke up with our hands so dry and stiff, we couldn’t move them! We had to put hand lotion by the bed to keep them moisturized. Even today, as I type this, skin is peeling off my fingers, as the remaining chemicals burn through the skin layers . . . fun times! Next time, I need to take my brother-in-law’s advice and always use latex gloves. I need to buy a box of 100 and use them anytime I’m using caulk, expanding foam that sticks to ANYTHING, glue, paint, or yes, even mortar!

Click the picture above for some pictures of our house projects.

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Cool House


This is the model home that my sister and her husband, Katie and Scott, are going to be building! It’s an amazing house and they should be breaking ground soon!

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Flying Together


With my departure to Cathay Pacific being eminent, Laura and I wanted a chance for me to be the captain of one of her flights here at Chautauqua, where I would fly her as a passenger. Once I go to Cathay, I won’t be a captain again for a long time, so we didn’t want to miss this opportunity.

Laura has flown a lot since she has met me, but never with me being the one flying her. So, I bid to work a Saturday, where she could come along. I got a trip that left Saturday afternoon and simply went from Columbus to Orlando, and then back to Columbus. The flight left about 5:00 p.m. and we got into Orlando around 7:00 p.m. and then back into Columbus around 10:00 p.m. It was a fun little out and back trip that not many people get to experience. It was certainly fun.

As always, there was a little bit of drama. The flight was booked full from Columbus to Orlando and it didn’t look like she, flying standby for free, would have a chance to get on board. I thought, “Great. I’m working Saturday, just for this experience, and now she won’t be able to go!” Well, luckily, one person didn’t show up and she got the last seat! I showed her a little bit around the cockpit, and my copilot was nice enough to take our picture a few times.

She sat in the last row, row 18, and got a window seat. The flights down, and back were both smooth and uneventful. I flew the leg down to Orlando and had a very smooth landing! I was nervous, though, because with the wife in the back, you want to be as impressive as you can, and of all the landings, this was not the one to mess up, or crash it on real rough. We touched down on runway 35 right and it was “buddah” (butter).

She was also able to get a seat on the way back as well. Good thing — I didn’t want her to have to buy a hotel room for the night. The co-pilot flew us back and overall, it was a real fun time. It was really cool to be flying Laura in the back. It really added a new meaning of importance to my flying. It was a special time for us and a neat experience I will remember for a long time.

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90 and Counting!


Click here or the picture of my grandparents for a photo gallery of pictures from Pawpaw’s 90th birthday bash!

Bill Sweaney served in WWII, has a Purple Heart, a Bronze Star, a Silver Star (an award that is second only to the Congressional Medal of Honor), many memories, a great family, lives in a paid off house that he built in 1950 that sits in a quiet neighborhood, and is now 90 years old! He is living a charmed life; a blessed life. God has been very good to him and I am privileged and honored to be his grandson.

Laura and I were able to fly down to Texas to participate in the celebration, as not many people get to see 90. He is still healthy, for the most part, and we are so proud of him.

My aunt Sharon put together an amazing display of all his WWII memorabilia, including a hand-made knife his father made for Army soldiers, European money, a Nazi flag and uniform, pictures of Pawpaw during the battle of the Bulge, awards, his induction letter telling him he needed to report for duty in the Army, and more.

It was all an amazing time, and it was great to see all the family members for the event. He has lots of friends from over the years, and many people stopped by. It is a true testament to how one has lived their life by how many friends they have — and how many show up for parties and funerals. Bill Sweaney is a generous, loving man that has lots of friends, because he has lived his life as a servant. A person with few friends needs to reevaluate how they live but Bill is not one of those people.

One of these days, Pawpaw will take with him to Heaven many stories and priceless memories from WWII. He will leave behind an amazing record, from owning his own heating and air conditioning business, Air Rite, to the family that he has. But for now, we are so proud of him and glad to celebrate, once again, a huge milestone in his life: 90!

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