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New Cactus


I love raising cacti, so I guess you could call me cactaceous. I’ve had this cactus pot for over a decade now, and two of the cacti in it are as old as the pot they are potted in. My mom and I had put this pot together 10 years ago and it was time to repot the soil. The gravel on top had all disappeared and the whole thing was way too heavy to move. My mother and I mistakenly put four inches of gravel in the bottom of the pot needlessly making it a real bear to move in off the porch in the autumn for the cold winter ahead.

While I planted our trees out back, Laura repotted the soil and took out all the gravel in the bottom and put new rocks on the surface of the pot and I think it looks really great now. We got two new cacti, the round bulb shaped one on the left and the multi-towered one on the right. A cactus is great because it takes so little care, and reminds me of my home, in Texas. With the new potting, I hope these little guys last a long time. Thanks, Laura!

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Trees; old and new


A few weeks ago, Laura and I bought some Flowering Cleveland Pear trees and yesterday, we were finally able to plant them. Click on the picture to see more photos.

I dug the hole for the first tree and it about killed me. There were roots growing in the ground that had to be cut through with my hatchet and the hard clay ground was like picking through granite with a toothpick. After that first hole I had to take a break before I tried to move the first tree in it’s burlap bulb over to the new hole. About 150 feet separated the tree bulb and the hole I dug and try as I might, I couldn’t get the bulb into the wheelbarrow. I ended up having to roll it along the ground and that took over an hour to do. The bulb was wet and probably weighed 100 lbs or more and it was all I could to do to move it, let alone get it across the yard.

Well, that was then and today was a new day. I had Laura there to help and she suggested using a dolly. I asked her what a cloned sheep had to do with this project and she said no, a metal one! Our wonderful neighbors had one and we moved both in about five minutes — yea!

We now have three nice pear trees (we have three, not a pair) and we hope they live a long time. The city was good enough to come in and cut down the two dead trees that were in the same area. They will be by in a few days to grind the stumps down so we will have a nice yard again. This project was somewhat expensive and cost me a lot of sweat and blood, but in the end, I think it was worth it.

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Redo: Texas Trip

The last time I tried to visit my family in Texas, all but a day and a half of it were ruined by a volcano in Alaska, where I was stuck for a week. This past week, the trip worked flawlessly and made it much more enjoyable. My trip for Cathay ended me up in Miami, so I caught a flight from there to DFW, and Laura was at home, so she caught a flight from Columbus, and we met in the middle there in Texas.

My last trip to Texas was cut short a great deal, outlined in all too many details here. I was able to see my family that lives in the Metroplex, including my grandparents, but not much of my parents. This time around, it was my parent’s turn, so Laura and I spent our time two hours away in Tyler.

My dad got a new Mac Mini, so it was nice to spend some time with him helping him figure it all out. Mac’s are very intuitive, but sometimes, especially having worked in the miserable windows environment for so long, the learning curve for a Mac can be quite steep. Why? Because things are so easy and so well laid out and thought out, that the easy thing to do or the easy way around an issue doesn’t present itself. But, once he’s hooked on Mac, he’ll never go back.

I recently heard some people complaining about having to pay the Mac “tax” — the money spent on more expensive Mac’s for the luxury of using an Apple. There are also some windows commercials depicting how cool Mac’s are, but that they are unaffordable. Like Southwest Airlines tries to tell us they are the cheapest (they aren’t), windows is doing the same thing. When I bought my Mac, I priced an equivalent Dell, with the same hard drive space, same ram, built in video camera, and so forth, and the Mac was actually $300 dollars cheaper! This is because Apple is small, so they don’t produce 50 versions of laptops; they have four or five. They don’t sell crappy low end versions like Compaq and HP do. Sure, you can spend $500 dollars on a laptop, but you’ll not have the same features as the Mac will, which isn’t a fair comparison. But, windows is favored by geeks around the world because they can screw with the programming. Those geeks then become managers of IT departments and spread the windows ilk into mainstream business everywhere. Fine with me. With Apple being below the radar of virus writers, that keeps my Mac running great.

Ken Rockwell has a great article about this (Search his site for “windows is bad”) where he makes a convincing argument that companies waste billions each year because they still use windows.

Beyond helping my dad, it was good to see my mom, too. That is, when she wasn’t busy falling into the pool. The other morning, my dad and I were at the breakfast table and my mom was in the other room with a fever. We heard her go into the back yard and then a few seconds later, a loud, blood curdling scream. This was then followed by the sound of a huge swoosh and ker-plunck. We ran out to the yard (not because we were concerned, but so that she would see us running and not walking) to see what all the commotion was about. My dad tugged her out and we found out that she had pulled on a garden hose and it stuck on something, recoiling and pulling her off balance and into the pool. They’ve lived there nearly four years, so I guess it was bound to happen sometime. I didn’t have my camera . . .

We also had my grandma, aunt and uncle, cousins, and friends over for burgers. It was nice to catch up on old stories and see everyone. I don’t get back to Texas often enough to see everyone all the time, so when I do, it really is great. Next time we’re down, it will be my mom’s side of the family’s turn to see us. We’ll be back in a few weeks because we’re going on a cruise that leaves out of Galveston, Texas. We’re really looking forward to that!

Because my mom and dad both work during the week, Laura and I found some things to do to entertain ourselves. We did some shopping for our cruise, bought my parents some late Christmas presents (really late), visited the Tyler Zoo, and Cherokee Trace animal park, where you drive through and feed the exotic animals from your car. Some pictures from the zoo and animal park are here. It was unseasonably cool all week which made both the zoo and animal park much more enjoyable. In the animal park, we got to see a kangaroo, antelope, and even a camel. It was funny because Laura was nervous to have the camel stick his head near her window. As he brought his head down to her closed window, I, from the driver’s side, rolled it down and she freaked. I thought it was funny, but I don’t think she did . . .

I’ll end on this: The better pictures of our trip are found on the previous links, but below are three funnies from our time in the animal park. I was feeding an Emu from the window of our car. The thing about Emu’s is that they have these terribly beady eyes and they always look like they are about to strike with their beak. I was never sure if they were going to eat the food pellets off the ground, or pinch a hunk of skin out of my arm. The following pictures are a sequence of three in a row, shot by Laura, from the safety of the other side of the car. Notice that she had the camera, and left me to the evil and scary Emu! Am I a sissy? Look at these photos and you be the judge.

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Newest Mac owner


Congratulations goes out to my dad, the newest Mac owner in my family and the most recent to see the light about cruddy windows. He already had a monitor, keyboard, and mouse, so he went with the Mac Mini, the most affordable way to get a Mac. It’s just a tiny box that has a lot of USB ports on the back so you can plug in your monitor and accessories, and viola: new Mac.

The new iMac’s are sexier, but the Mac mini is no slouch and allows for more versatility. It’s going to take him a little while to get used to how easy and comfortably a Mac runs, but a steep learning curve can be fun, too, if he looks at it like an adventure, where new computing tricks lay just around the corner.

He was fed up with all the garbage that windows is: “Program not responding”, “Program has performed an illegal operation”, “End this program now?”, “Your virus software is out of date”, “A new software patch is available.” And on and on. He was ready for something that just works. He wanted to find a computer that could run windows and Apple software on the same machine. He found it, in the new Mac mini.

Intrigued? Learn how easy it is to switch from windows to a new Mac and why, here. The Apple store is here.

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Mulching


Laura and I got lots of mulching accomplished this week. I got into one of those rhythms where I feel real productive and wanted to get something done. I think it was because I only got 2 hours of sleep the night before, coming home from work, and got giddy. Either way, it was good to get the mulching finished. Laura was a great big help because she was the spreader of the mulch to make it look nice, and I was the brute force to move it where it needed to go.

We have a lot of mulch on our property as it goes around several trees and all around the perimeter of the house. Three yards of mulch set us back $38 a yard at Kurtz Brothers. We buy it in bulk there and they have great prices and are only a few miles away. We borrow a pickup and make a few runs to get it once a year. If you live in Columbus, Ohio like we do, I highly recommend Kurtz Brothers. They have three locations, good prices, and are helpful and friendly.

I ordered one yard and then came back and got two more in one trip. Two yards of mulch in a one ton pickup takes up the entire bed! The guy used a huge front-end loader to fill the bed and then asked if I wanted a little bit more. I told him that I’d take whatever he’d give me, and boy, he dumped it in. I probably got more than two yards on that load, and that’s another reason I like buying mulch at Kurtz.

The mulch looks great and I love how mulch can transform an old, destroyed yard from winter, and turn it into a warm pleasant place to look upon. It’s just window dressing, but it sure makes the place look a lot sharper.

The following day, we bought three Flowering Pear trees to replace some dying trees in our yard. They were a great deal from a nursery going out of business just down the road. We are hoping the city will take down the dying trees for free, as they are close to the road, and save us the trouble. Once the old and dying trees are gone, these Pears will line the back of our property that butts up to another road. The Flowering Pear trees’ bulbs are huge and it is all Laura and I can do to move them. I rolled them into my wheelbarrow to move them and the bowl of the wheelbarrow bent and got disfigured a little. I’m really looking forward to moving them again into the holes I dig for them. I’m sure it will all be worth it once we get them planted.

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Easter Weekend

Three son-in-laws (who married three sisters, and Chad pictured here) were out helping their father-in-law this past Easter weekend clean up brush and fallen limbs around his 8 acre property. The day couldn’t have been more beautiful for that kind of work: dry, clear, and cool. Over the years, lots of small bushes and trees grow up to be nuisance plants that clutter the landscape, and branches fall from trees all the time, leaving lots to clean up.

My father-in-law Dennis has a lot of trees on his property, and thus, every few years, it takes a good cleaning out. There is still more to do, even after our work, as parts of his property have never been cleared from when they first bought the place. It has, and had, years of brush and growth that will take many weekends to finally clean up.

Dennis rented a wood chipper, and we spent most all day feeding its hungry blades, that reduced hours of efforts into a small pile of wood chips. I was amazed at how many limbs it took to make a small pile of sawdust.

Late in the day, one of the branches I was “killing” struck back at me, in its final throws of being ground up, in a last ditch effort to wound its tormentor. It reached out and gave me a good scratch on the left arm, a move that sent me to the E.R. wondering if I needed stitches. In the end, the doctor deemed it wasn’t deep enough to warrant stitches, and glued it back together. I then got a tetanus shot that has made my left arm sore, even now. It was funny, because I haven’t been back to my local church in a long time due to work, and lots of people saw me yesterday. They slapped me on the shoulder to say hello, and that was enough, with my shot, to about bring me to the floor. Oh well — next time I get scratched, I’ll already have had my tetanus booster shot.

I hope everyone enjoyed their Easter weekend . . .

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Time Together


Before I left Columbus for another week-long trip, Laura and I were able to go for a spring walk out at a park near our house. The weather was just fine as could be and the trees were just starting to bud new leaves.

As I have to spend more time away from home, I really relish these chances to be with Laura and just spend simple time with her. A walk in the woods doesn’t seem like much until one must spend a lot of time away from home. As a pilot, I’ve come to really enjoy any time I can get with her.

The vacation we planned last week got all messed up, so we weren’t able to spend much time together. I’m hoping that future schedule changes may allow me to spend more time at home, but for now, these quiet walks in the park will have to do. Is there someone you need to spend more time with today? If so, make the time to do it.

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